Lesson Six
ON LINE
Enlightenment Dyad Event
Dear Enlightened Heart Forum Members,
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Lesson Six of the Enlightened Living Program is an experimental ON LINE Enlightenment Dyad Event.
It is a 7 day event. You have only one dyad partner for the entire 7 days.
And you can begin at any time. For example you and your partner may begin your 7 days tomorrow. I and my partner may start today.
Here is what you do if you want to participate:
1) Choose to participate.
2) READ Below: Introduction to Dyads On Line
3) READ Below: How to do On Line Enlightenment Dyads.
4) Choose a partner from among the Forum members list.
5) Send them an email asking if they will be your partner.
6) Begin your Dyad.
7) Post me any questions you may about your own process or any that you may have about the logistics of Dyads On Line.
with love
Yoah
Introduction to Dyads On Line
1. Read: How to do On Line Enlightenment Dyads
2. Re-read: How to do On Line Enlightenment Dyads
3. Choose an On Line partner from the Enlightened Heart Forum members or invite someone into the Forum whom you would like to have as a dyad partner.
4. Choose NEW POST at the bottom of the Enlightened Heart Forum Discussions Page. Label the NEW POST with you and your partner’s name followed by the word “DYAD”. You and your partner use this topic heading that you just created to stream your dyad reflections into.
For example if I choose Christy to do a dyad with I would click NEW POST and label it: YOAH AND CHRISTY DYAD. Both Christy and I would conduct our on going dyad under the topic heading, YOAH AND CHRISTY DYAD.
You and your dyad partner would do the same thing and that is where each of our respective dyad encounters would take place. We meet in the open Forum space. This is our dyad floor or workshop room where several dyads may be in progress. The topic headings might read like this: Yoah and Christy Dyad. Jim and Lisa Dyad. Dawn and Richard Dyad.
5. The main guideline and agreement for participating is that you will not gossip about what is communicated in the Dyad Forum Space. You will not evaluate or make comments about what your partner or others communicate. And you will not refer to what your partner communicates or give advice. You are to listen and understand as best as you can.
6. Each dyad partner, one or more times per day, will READ the posting of their dyad partner and send an acknowledgement of THANK YOU or I GOT IT. As in an Enlightenment Intensive Retreat, there is no commenting, criticizing or gossiping about upon what is arising for your partner in your respective dyad.
7. At least once per day you READ what is communicated in your dyad space and acknowledge the communication, if there happens to be a posting. You do not have to self reflect and communicate each day. This gives you some flexibility in your personal schedule to self reflect and communicate at least every few days. As a communicator you can communicate more than once per day and there is no change over as in a typical dyad session. (Let’s see how this works in practise).
8. You and your dyad partner can organize a time to be on line at the same time if you choose too, though it is not necessary.
9. As a member of the Forum you can read and receive any or all of the other DYAD’S postings or communications. You do have to send a “Thank you, I got it” ACKNOWLEDGEMENT upon reading and understanding any dyad you read.
How to do an Enlightenment Dyad On Line
1. An Enlightenment Dyad is two individuals who come together to bring about
understanding with regards to who and what they are. The two individuals are not involved in trying to straighten out their relationship. There are other dyads that are more effective for resolving relationship issues.
2. The Enlightenment Dyad Instruction that we will all be using is: Tell me who you are.
3. Your partner will not be giving you the Who Am I instruction as in a typical EI Retreat. Who Am I is the contemplation you accept when you choose to enter the dyad. It is a continuing contemplation upon entering the On Line Dyad space.
You begin your Who Am I contemplation by setting out or intending to
consciously, directly know your self. Open yourself to consciously, directly
know who you are as you hold your intention to know who you are.
4. Communicate to your partner whatever occurs in your consciousness as
a direct result of contemplating. Communicate as best you can. In this Forum,
we are somewhat limited to words, prose, poetry or graphic images. It has its
limitations, as do two live dyad partners.
5. There will be no change over gongs. As a contemplator and
communicator you continue contemplating and communicating as inspired to do so.
6. As a receiver, do your best to understand. You are not to judge, criticise
or comment on what your partner communicates.
7. Acknowledge your partner with 'thank you' or 'I got it' or any other
communication that conveys this after reading and understanding any communication your partner posts.
8. You don’t have to wait for any ‘change over’ to become a contemplating or communicating partner. You just become one.
9. You and your partner do a dyad in the open Forum space. This is similar to the dyad workshop space, in that others can hear you. In this open Forum space, any one can read your postings as to what you are conscious of and communicating. When you do read and understand another’s communication, acknowledge with a simple posting of 'thank you' or 'I got it'.
10. This Open Forum Space can be very powerful. The principle of dissolving the mind or the barriers that stand in the way of your enlightenment is the principle of UNDERSTANDING. The mind is dissolved to the degree that your communication is understood by another individual. In this Open Forum Space there is the potential for many others to get your thoughts. The only purpose for a thought is to get something about yourself across to others. Getting it across and having it understood, is the act of having the thought fulfilled.
